I’m running my 28 day, online, self coaching programme starting on the 14th Feb. The theme is preparing yourself to be the best lover you’ve ever been. I’ve collected some of my best, easy-to-use, coaching tips on preparing yourself body, mind and senses to be the best lover you’ve ever been. I want to make this… [Read more…]
January 17, 2012
Many months ago I was asleep in the arms of a wonderful man. I heard him murmur, ‘Peace in a pomegranate.’ ‘Hm?’ I asked. ‘I just dreamt that phrase – peace in a pomegranate. I don’t know what it means.’ ‘It means something to me,’ I said. ‘Its about love.’ In my half awake state… [Read more…]
January 2, 2012
Christmas 2004 – it was the last Christmas I spent as a married woman. I remember it distinctly. I was deeply unhappy and in my heart I knew that I no longer wanted to be in this marriage, but in my head I hadn’t made that decision. It felt overwhelming to even think about it… [Read more…]
November 8, 2011
We were taught to be good girls. Thats the trouble. Good girls don’t make happy women. Are you ready to stop being good and start being happy? Our date will be dedicated to two questions: 1.Where in my life am I trying to be good instead of aiming to be happy? 2.What shifts need to… [Read more…]
October 6, 2011
Yesterday I attended an evening with renowned sexologist and erotic educator, Joseph Kramer http://sexologicalbodywork.com/doku.php?id=profession The discussion turned briefly to eros, with Joseph asking “How do we carry our eros in our body?’ Many of us, myself included, often use the word eros to describe a sense of aliveness and juiciness. Its scope is much bigger… [Read more…]
September 20, 2011
NEW in my series of dates for women is this Pleasure Salon which introduces you to tantric principles to keep your love life juicy and fun. Would you like to bring a new dimension to your enjoyment of erotic pleasure? In this salon we’ll explore the dynamic of leading and being led; taking charge and… [Read more…]
September 12, 2011
I believe that in order to be a skillful lover you need to have your own repertoire of moves. Positions, rhythms and patterns that suit your body. This requires practice. But what if you find that your favourite position or stroke just doesn’t do it for your lover? It can be quite a thing to… [Read more…]
September 3, 2011
I recently heard the father of a bride talking about marriage. He said that there are two things he and his wife recommend for a happy marriage. The first is, ‘Keep talking things through. And listen. Because the listening is powerful in itself. Secondly, be kind to one another.’ I was particularly struck by, ‘Be… [Read more…]
August 31, 2011
Yesterday, I went to see the new Justin Timberlake/ Mila Kunis film – Friends With Benefits http://fwb-movie.com/ It touches on the well known question, ‘Can you have sex with a friend without the sex complicating the friendship?’ or ‘Can you have sex with someone and remain friends?’ This type of question assumes that sex has the… [Read more…]
June 22, 2011
I’ve had two conversations this week which have surprised and saddened me. The gist of both was the same – I was speaking with people who believed that getting married was the solution to relationship problems. It makes no sense – how does binding yourself legally to someone resolve pre-existing discontent? And why would you… [Read more…]
January 21, 2012
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