I enjoy the freedom of a dating lifestyle. Of course with greater freedom comes greater responsibility – both to oneself and to those you date. It takes much more work than a conventional relationship. The irony is that being free requires stronger boundaries and clearer commitments. What will you do and what won’t you do? What do you expect and what will you not expect – both of yourself and others?
I think the key is to know your deal breakers, to know what you’re willing to be flexible about, and know your core requirements.
And fundamentally, to know – or at least to ask yourself, ‘What is my purpose in dating?’ Keep asking that one – the answers may surprise you. And thats where the fun starts…..