When you go to bed with each other for the first time take it slow. Don’t be afraid to stop and talk to each other. Say what you like and don’t like.
Say if something isn’t working for you. Let them know if they should adjust the angle or pressure of their touch.
A lot of people worry about ruining the moment by talking. Words don’t have to ruin it; they can enhance it. Talk sexy. Talk slow. Whisper. Nibble and kiss between sentences. Just make sure you talk.